give thanks

What unexpected things life has brought us since Thanksgiving last year. So much to be thankful for. Payton was adopted right before Thanksgiving last year, this year we celebrated with an Adoption Day which we will continue to do every year. Jeremiah came to us after Thanksgiving last year. Although we have given thanks for…

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Jeremiah’s bio mom is back

Jeremiah is having visits with his bio mom again. I’m sure it all gets a little confusing when you’re not living it day to day. We have been told, “I thought the bio mom’s rights had already been terminated.” That’s not quite the situation. It was discussed, but never came to fruition. Many months ago…

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a baby scrapbook brings the unexpected

I was so excited to pick up a scrapbook that Payton’s biological aunt had made for her. At the time of Payton’s adoption I had spoken with the aunt, she shared with me that she had pictures of Payton when she was a baby, and they had some family history they wanted to give us.…

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a path chosen or destined?

God can work anything out for His good. Well, this is what my husband, Justin, so lovingly reminded me of when I shared what I’d just realized. What I realized is that we would be somewhere completely different if we hadn’t chosen to do foster care. In all fairness, it isn’t something I chose at first.…

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10 minutes of fame (okay 2 min.)

I am so thrilled about this, I was able to share what my heart beats for… We were on the local news. Here is the print version: Giving Kids a Safe and Loving Home Some families here on the Western Slope are working to raise awareness on the importance of adoption. It’s something they have…

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termination date set!

TPR – Termination of Parental Rights has been set. We will go before a Judge, and he will decide whether or not to terminate Jeremiah’s biological parent’s rights. The hearing will be on January 11&12. Not close by any stretch of the imagination, but it come quickly with the holidays to be celebrated between now…

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feelings on bio parents

In the beginning of this case it was so difficult to imagine two people losing their child because of Mental Health issues. I was so sad for J’s bio mom, as I saw how sad she was, and I could also see obvious evidence that she wouldn’t be able to care for a child. But…

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falling

Directly following Jeremiah’s visits with T (bio father), Jeremiah is falling down and hitting his head. He won’t use his protective abilities, he will just fall from standing and bang his head on the floor. We have wood flooring, so this is cause for some concern. My biggest concern is that he only does this…

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trick or treat smell my feet

I had a double whammy. Both Justin and his mom were teaching Payton to say, “Trick or treat, smell my feet, give me something good to eat.” But when it came time to collect the goodies she barely remembered to say, “Trick or treat,” she was so focused on the candy in the bowls. =)…

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there’s nothing i can do

The little “i” is purposefully inserted into the title of this post because i think many of us believe we are too small, too insignificant to make any real changes in this world. That just isn’t true. I have realized this colossal passion for children in foster care, which laid dormant inside of me for…

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