how to make tele-therapy work for your special needs family

When parents are told they’re switching to Teletherapy, most are reluctant, I mean, isn’t therapy all about in-person therapy? How will the therapist “work” with my child if they aren’t physical near them? And what will I do without the hour by myself sitting in a waiting room, it’s almost as good as a babysitter,…

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how will the paramedics know my child…has autism, can’t talk, has severe allergies, has a serious illness?

When you have a kiddo with autism, one who’s nonverbal or one who doesn’t have fluent language, it can be really scary at times. One of those situations I worry about occasionally is what would happen if we were in a car accident and Justin and I were hurt. What if we were so incapacitated…

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nonverbal autistic children have something to say

(This post can also be applied to nonverbal adults. In this article I refer to my son, Jeremiah. He’s six-years-old, has autism, and can’t speak, however he can make limited sounds.) We talk for them, we assume what they want. We don’t listen to the their nonverbal cues, we move on without concern for the…

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PERFECTION and peoples pervasive disrespect for the autistic person

It’s amazing the places we find encouragement and the places we find criticism. Are you surprised by the comments you hear about your child who has a disABILITY, about others who have disABILITIES? It’s especially gut-wrenching when those comments come from a family member who should know better. Particularly one who’s been around your child…

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school and what it means for the autistic child

For many of you school has started, and I really hope your child is having a great year. It’s scary sending your child off to a new year, especially if they’re going to a new school, a new class, or have a new teacher or aid. So many factors play into our children’s lives. Think…

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what to communicate with your child’s teacher: Autism in the classroom

Originally posted on lovin' adoptin' & autism:
School is starting soon. I think I just heard YIPEEES!!! from several of you. 🙂 Autism parents might be a tad more excited than the average parent for their child to go back to school after summer break, as that routine and consistency can make a night and…

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the many benefits of swimming for autistic children

Teaching autistic children to swim has numerous benefits, first being that drowning in the NUMBER ONE KILLER of kids who have autism. I’ve written these two posts on swimming and the autistic child: The first I highly recommend reading, 4 Reasons Why You Should Teach Your Autistic Child to Swim. Also check out, How to…

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this IS what I signed up for (autism, adoption, and all of the above)

Last week I shared what fun has been going on here. After sharing this with a friend, she said, “It’s not what you signed up for is it?” (A little background if you haven’t been around for long: Justin and I adopted two children from foster care, Payton is seven, and Jeremiah has non-verbal autism…

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5 tips for parents of special needs children

Thinking positive is what gets me through. Crazy thing is I’m not a positive person. Now you say, Yeah right, sure you aren’t. But I’m not, I’m quite pessimistic, really the kind of “glass half empty” kinda gal. I’m fairly positive when it comes to autism though. I’m learning from some of the best, and I’ve…

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transitioning the special needs student to another class or school

Yesterday was Jeremiah’s last day of preschool. I’m crying. I’m scared. I’m worried. I know so many of you can relate. The awesome thing is that Jeremiah’s preschool teacher can relate because she has an autistic son who’s sixteen. She has said over and over through our three years together that Jeremiah reminds her so…

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