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it’s not “just a kid thing”: behaviors in adopted and foster children

By: Tracy Dee Whitt April 30, 2015September 14, 2019

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“Desi cries every time we’re in the car, no matter what I do she won’t stop,” Jason complained to his friend. “Oh, don’t worry, she’ll grow out of it, Zavier did that when he was young too,” replied Zack. As parents of hurting children we hear this often, far too often. Our friends and family…

are your worries about your child’s future stealing joy from the present?

By: Tracy Dee Whitt April 2, 2015September 14, 2019

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“We can help pave the roads of those around us, but we can’t choose their direction.” – Shri Rama * You can listen to a recording of this post, just scroll to the end. When you adopt, occasionally worry comes with it. How will my child feel about their adoption? Will they feel like I…

how to help your adopted/foster child sleep (sleep issues part 2)

By: Tracy Dee Whitt September 5, 2014September 14, 2019

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Sleep issues are a hot topic in the adoption and foster care community. Last week I highlighted why hurting children have problems sleeping in my post, Why Adopted and Foster Children Have Sleep Issues, and as I promised, I’m back this week to give you ideas on how to help your kids sleep. If you…

why consequences & rewards don’t work for hurting children (adoption/foster)

By: Tracy Dee Whitt January 16, 2014September 14, 2019

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You can listen to a recording of this post, just scroll down to the bottom of this page and don some earbuds. 🙂 “My child doesn’t respond to consequences, I can take away anything and he doesn’t care.” “Rewards mean nothing to my daughter, I can offer an ice cream at McDonald’s or a new…